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		<title>Comment on Eager vs. Lazy Lifestyle by Elliptical reviews</title>
		<link>http://tonythinks.com/eager-vs-lazy-lifestyle/comment-page-1/#comment-1087</link>
		<dc:creator>Elliptical reviews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 19:17:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Strongly suggest adding a &quot;google+&quot; button for the blog!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Buddhism and Emotional Awareness by Tony</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 05:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I&#039;m very glad you found this and found it helpful. Forgiveness can be very difficult to get to, and I think the reason is that we&#039;re afraid that forgiving somehow trivializes the suffering we went through. But in the end, you can choose to glorify your pain and indulge in self pity, or you can forgive and find inner peace. It really is a choice. Little by little, you&#039;ll get there, and never look back. Best of luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I&#8217;m very glad you found this and found it helpful. Forgiveness can be very difficult to get to, and I think the reason is that we&#8217;re afraid that forgiving somehow trivializes the suffering we went through. But in the end, you can choose to glorify your pain and indulge in self pity, or you can forgive and find inner peace. It really is a choice. Little by little, you&#8217;ll get there, and never look back. Best of luck!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Buddhism and Emotional Awareness by Suzanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suzanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 04:33:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This helped me very much tonight. I still don&#039;t know how to be in the same room with her and to not remember the abuse. She is friends with the same group I am and I haven&#039;t been able to be around any of them because she will be there. I feel like I have been punished by her negative behavior. I really want to let this go... I really want to free myself of this weight.
Thanks for your encouraging words...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This helped me very much tonight. I still don&#8217;t know how to be in the same room with her and to not remember the abuse. She is friends with the same group I am and I haven&#8217;t been able to be around any of them because she will be there. I feel like I have been punished by her negative behavior. I really want to let this go&#8230; I really want to free myself of this weight.<br />
Thanks for your encouraging words&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Buddhism and Emotional Awareness by maddie</title>
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		<dc:creator>maddie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 16:56:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I seem to need more concrete approach on how to get to forgive,and how to get to the point of not hating the person, but the action. 
One also wants to ensure that what wrong happened does not happen again, or to another person....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I seem to need more concrete approach on how to get to forgive,and how to get to the point of not hating the person, but the action.<br />
One also wants to ensure that what wrong happened does not happen again, or to another person&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Welcome! by Dave Templeman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave Templeman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 18:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Tony - ran across your site today.  I&#039;m looking for a couple iPhone / iPad developers for a project here in Kansas City.  Shoot me an email or call me at 913-663-2002 and I&#039;ll fill you in.

Dave Templeman</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Tony &#8211; ran across your site today.  I&#8217;m looking for a couple iPhone / iPad developers for a project here in Kansas City.  Shoot me an email or call me at 913-663-2002 and I&#8217;ll fill you in.</p>
<p>Dave Templeman</p>
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		<title>Comment on Re-Wiring the Brain by Ashok</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ashok</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 21:18:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ignorance is Bliss though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ignorance is Bliss though.</p>
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		<title>Comment on From Dance Captain to Coding Genius by Jennifer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 11:33:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have not just started developing problem solving skills at the age of 22 and you know this. This was an opportunity for me to try something new and get out of my box. This was achieved. I do not understand these gender differences expressed as I never have felt that my intelligence or motivationon was in question by teachers growing up. 

I am glad you had the opportunity to teach me some programming, although I believe I am not a textbook example for Gen Ys. I do not believe this experience was written about correctly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have not just started developing problem solving skills at the age of 22 and you know this. This was an opportunity for me to try something new and get out of my box. This was achieved. I do not understand these gender differences expressed as I never have felt that my intelligence or motivationon was in question by teachers growing up. </p>
<p>I am glad you had the opportunity to teach me some programming, although I believe I am not a textbook example for Gen Ys. I do not believe this experience was written about correctly.</p>
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		<title>Comment on From Dance Captain to Coding Genius by Tony</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 21:50:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Christie @Christine -- Despite the title, I hadn&#039;t even thought about this in terms of gender differences. I agree that the problem is probably more wide-spread in girls, but a large part of guys are also affected. The reason I think girls are more susceptible is that girls are more likely to be praised for things they didn&#039;t earn, like looks. This leads to a tendency to think that merit is innate and out of our control. In other words, a fixed mindset.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Christie @Christine &#8212; Despite the title, I hadn&#8217;t even thought about this in terms of gender differences. I agree that the problem is probably more wide-spread in girls, but a large part of guys are also affected. The reason I think girls are more susceptible is that girls are more likely to be praised for things they didn&#8217;t earn, like looks. This leads to a tendency to think that merit is innate and out of our control. In other words, a fixed mindset.</p>
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		<title>Comment on From Dance Captain to Coding Genius by Christine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 20:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel this lack of true problem solving skills is one of the most frustrating and prevalent problems in our education system. It is especially frustrating to see how with even just one decent time investment so much progress can be made, yet no one had ever even tried before.

Also, I don&#039;t know if it is simply because of gender prejudices among teachers, as Christie suggests, but for some reason this does seem to be a much larger problem among intelligent females than intelligent males. I wonder if it has anything to do with what parents expect from their children as well. For instance, I think there can be more pressure for females to get good grades than males since boys are often excused by the &quot;boys will be boys&quot; phenomenon, making it perfectly acceptable for them to excel in sports instead of in school. While this might seem to have the opposite effect, I think this can make girls more results-driven and more likely to focus on completing assignments (which most would agree are not problem-solving oriented) instead of learning the material/exploring the world around them. I also think fathers may be less likely to joke around with daughters/use sarcasm when speaking with them; both of which I believe help to develop a more critical mindset, where you not only must listen to authoritative figures but process and analyze what they said and decide for yourself if it makes sense based on your past experiences with them. Whatever the cause of the general problem, and the intensity of it among females, I think nothing is being done to correct the problem by our education standards.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel this lack of true problem solving skills is one of the most frustrating and prevalent problems in our education system. It is especially frustrating to see how with even just one decent time investment so much progress can be made, yet no one had ever even tried before.</p>
<p>Also, I don&#8217;t know if it is simply because of gender prejudices among teachers, as Christie suggests, but for some reason this does seem to be a much larger problem among intelligent females than intelligent males. I wonder if it has anything to do with what parents expect from their children as well. For instance, I think there can be more pressure for females to get good grades than males since boys are often excused by the &#8220;boys will be boys&#8221; phenomenon, making it perfectly acceptable for them to excel in sports instead of in school. While this might seem to have the opposite effect, I think this can make girls more results-driven and more likely to focus on completing assignments (which most would agree are not problem-solving oriented) instead of learning the material/exploring the world around them. I also think fathers may be less likely to joke around with daughters/use sarcasm when speaking with them; both of which I believe help to develop a more critical mindset, where you not only must listen to authoritative figures but process and analyze what they said and decide for yourself if it makes sense based on your past experiences with them. Whatever the cause of the general problem, and the intensity of it among females, I think nothing is being done to correct the problem by our education standards.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Be Smart by Re-Wiring the Brain &#124; Tony thinks..</title>
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		<dc:creator>Re-Wiring the Brain &#124; Tony thinks..</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 12:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] the previous two topics have dealt with this topic), but in case you were wonder which mindset (fixed or growth) is closer to reality, the science clearly supports the notion that a person&#8217;s skill and [...]</description>
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